Bridging Worlds: Rev. Sharon Rubey’s Call as a United Methodist Deacon

By Wendy R. Cromwell

Standing in a crowded communion line as a college student, the Rev. Sharon Rubey encountered the moment that would shape her ministry, and her understanding of the role of a deacon.

“We were standing in the communion line… and it was where we served one another,” she recalled. When she turned to serve the person behind her, she saw “a very huge, tall young man… and he didn’t speak the same language that I did.”

That brief exchange carried lasting meaning. “We served one another communion. It was moving,” she said. “I knew at that time that… God was showing me what a life of service would be like.”

For Rubey, that moment became a blueprint for what deacons are called to do: serve across differences, connecting people, cultures, and communities. She describes that work as “bridging the gap between the church and the world.”

Rev. Sharon Rubey

Over decades of ministry, that calling took shape in both global and local contexts. With The United Methodist Church’s General Board of Global Ministries, Rubey traveled internationally, witnessing the work of missionaries and sharing their stories with congregations across the United States. “I… learned their stories,” she said, then went church to church “telling them about the service of United Methodist missionaries.”

That work brought deep satisfaction. “It was literally miraculous what some of the people were doing,” she said of the ministries she encountered, adding that sharing those experiences “gave a lot of meaning to what I was doing, and it was very joyful.”

At the same time, her work in an Atlanta community center grounded her ministry among people she described as “marginalized from opportunities, from services, and experiencing racial injustice.” Supporting children in after-school programs, working with families, and helping create community for seniors were among the moments that sustained her. “It was very fulfilling ministry.”

Rubey was part of the first generation to help define the modern Order of Deacons, a role she believes has only grown more essential. “Deacons have been uniquely called to serve in this role of bridging the gap,” she said, describing their place “at the threshold of the church, bringing the church and the world together.”

The evolution of the role from “word and service” to include “compassion and justice” is key to its impact, Rubey said. “Compassion and justice are the defining attributes.”

Rubey believes that calling is urgent. “We need those who bridge the gap… more than ever today,” she said.

From a single communion moment to a lifetime of ministry, Rubey continues to stand at the threshold of the church and connect it to the world it serves, reflecting the enduring purpose of deacons.

Bridging Church and World

Through diverse ministries and shared purpose, meet six deacons who embody a calling rooted in Word, service, compassion, and justice. Their stories in the coming weeks mark the 30th anniversary of the Order of Deacons and its enduring mission to build bridges of hope.